No expectation,No Disappointment.
Expectation!Expectation!Expectation!Expectation!
Every body carries expectation in life at every stage. An individual being an child have expectation from parent, being friend have expectation best friend.Every body have expectations.
What happens if the expectation are not met or not completed?
lets take an example of individual being an child having expectation from parent. A child, till get matured would have expectation which are like :-
#1 Parent should give a time to child.
Now a days both parent works to have good life style and most important to close the home loan. Once the parent at work, child mostly kept a day care. A recent incidence, would like to share, where a child visited a family at downstairs where a kid was playing with grandmother. seeing that, child spoke to with grandmother and asked, you look after a kid daily? her mother wont kept her at Day Care. Daily my mother kept me at Day Care. I do not like that, my parent do not gives a time to me. I will also kept them in "vrudha asharam" in their old age.
That child was having very small expectation that parent should give a time and not to send child to Day Care. Child might be expecting someone from family a caring one should be with and take care. That expectation did not matched and child thought of very negative point keeping own parents to "Vrudha Asharam" in their old age.
#2 Parent should understand the need of child.
At the growing age, every child want to eat good food. Parent should understood that need and before serving daily same food, they should think. at growing age every child faces difficult situation of body changes, parent needs to give a required suggestive instruction and have to provide the all daily required things. this is applicable for for both girl and boy. Parent need to have friendly environment and needs to find out the root cause if child is not accepting parents thoughts.
Another example where friend's expectation from best friends :-
Most of the time, a friendship is unintentional, that happens without any planing. There are two friend. One is A and another is B. Both of them become good friends over the period. Some time both friends busy with their works and they wont find a time to chat. A friend formed another group and was always busy with them. B expecting A should give a time and have discussion like old days. But that not happened and they both friend not do not talk with each other. even they wont look at each other. the reason is that, expectation not met and disappointment raised, resulting anger and no talks. B would have avoided from that situation, if the expectation from A was not there. B should have followed the "No expectation,No Disappointment."
If the expectation are not met, then there is disappointment. Disappointment result into unhappiness, sadness and so on.
Expectation of having baby after nine months, but sometime God Cheats and before experiencing the touch or that movement of baby birth, god takes out baby sometimes. Disappointments results into sadness. All planned thoughts not real by that time.
Sometime, a person's 'no' or denial result into very depressing movement in life. One have plan everything, have done very good preparation for that movement and suddenly a "denial" statements stops everything for couple of time.
So, that's a reason please do not keep expectation for happening good things only, bad things also happens in the world. Always be ready to accept unexpected things.
Always try hard/best from bottom for heart without expecting anything. Happiness hides there.
No expectation,No Disappointment!!No expectation,No Disappointment!!No expectation,No Disappointment!!
Every body carries expectation in life at every stage. An individual being an child have expectation from parent, being friend have expectation best friend.Every body have expectations.
What happens if the expectation are not met or not completed?
lets take an example of individual being an child having expectation from parent. A child, till get matured would have expectation which are like :-
#1 Parent should give a time to child.
Now a days both parent works to have good life style and most important to close the home loan. Once the parent at work, child mostly kept a day care. A recent incidence, would like to share, where a child visited a family at downstairs where a kid was playing with grandmother. seeing that, child spoke to with grandmother and asked, you look after a kid daily? her mother wont kept her at Day Care. Daily my mother kept me at Day Care. I do not like that, my parent do not gives a time to me. I will also kept them in "vrudha asharam" in their old age.
That child was having very small expectation that parent should give a time and not to send child to Day Care. Child might be expecting someone from family a caring one should be with and take care. That expectation did not matched and child thought of very negative point keeping own parents to "Vrudha Asharam" in their old age.
#2 Parent should understand the need of child.
At the growing age, every child want to eat good food. Parent should understood that need and before serving daily same food, they should think. at growing age every child faces difficult situation of body changes, parent needs to give a required suggestive instruction and have to provide the all daily required things. this is applicable for for both girl and boy. Parent need to have friendly environment and needs to find out the root cause if child is not accepting parents thoughts.
Another example where friend's expectation from best friends :-
Most of the time, a friendship is unintentional, that happens without any planing. There are two friend. One is A and another is B. Both of them become good friends over the period. Some time both friends busy with their works and they wont find a time to chat. A friend formed another group and was always busy with them. B expecting A should give a time and have discussion like old days. But that not happened and they both friend not do not talk with each other. even they wont look at each other. the reason is that, expectation not met and disappointment raised, resulting anger and no talks. B would have avoided from that situation, if the expectation from A was not there. B should have followed the "No expectation,No Disappointment."
If the expectation are not met, then there is disappointment. Disappointment result into unhappiness, sadness and so on.
Expectation of having baby after nine months, but sometime God Cheats and before experiencing the touch or that movement of baby birth, god takes out baby sometimes. Disappointments results into sadness. All planned thoughts not real by that time.
Sometime, a person's 'no' or denial result into very depressing movement in life. One have plan everything, have done very good preparation for that movement and suddenly a "denial" statements stops everything for couple of time.
So, that's a reason please do not keep expectation for happening good things only, bad things also happens in the world. Always be ready to accept unexpected things.
Always try hard/best from bottom for heart without expecting anything. Happiness hides there.
No expectation,No Disappointment!!No expectation,No Disappointment!!No expectation,No Disappointment!!
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